I choose the 3 following ideals I
would like to pay much attention to and follow. Of course all the others are
also important, but these three are the most important ones with my
understandings to the present situation.
1. Ideals to children:
“ I-1.5—To create and maintain safe
and healthy settings that foster children’s social, emotional, cognitive, and physical development and that respect their dignity and their contributions. “. For
99% of Chinese parents, they focus on children’s cognitive development much
more than social, emotional and physical development. Especially for emotion of
a child, it is not usually mentioned. If a child cry, the adult will stop it
quickly and focus on how not let him cry, like distract his attention, bribe or
punish. The children learn to hid his own feelings from very young, they find
out it is not proper to cry, to express their emotion. Sometimes even if he is
very happy for something, the adults will teach him not to be proud, and tell
them there are higher goal to achieve, so the children learn to be not
satisfied with everything he has, and always achieve more. It will cause
competition, greedy and other problems. So setting a balanced environment for a
child is very important.
2. Ideal to family:
I-2.5—To respect the
dignity and preferences of each family and to make an effort to learn about its structure,culture, language, customs, and beliefs. This draws my attention
because we really should respect each family’s dignity and preferences. With
the urbanization of China, people especially the peasants start to move out of
their hometown and start to live in the cities. The problems come along with
it. With limited knowledge and skills, they have to choose simple or physical
work to do. In China, the beliefs that the brain workers take a higher social
level and be paid higher than physical workers have a long tradition. The
education of the children from these new immigrants to city is a big and urgent
problem now. Even the state spends a lot on it, but it’s far more than enough
and the big problem is still there. The biggest problem is the society has no
respect to these families. The main stream of the city regard them as enemy or
try to isolate them from their own circle. You can imagine for the children in
the new immigrants families, they live in an unfair and isolated world because
their parents’ social status. I do hope this will be changed somehow in the
near future.
3. Ideal to Community and Society
I-4.2—To promote
cooperation among professionals and agencies and interdisciplinary collaboration among professions concerned with addressing issues in the health, education, and well-being of young children, their families, and their early childhood educators. China really needs this
idea and practice. I have heard about the cooperation among all sectors for a
long time, but there are always policy barriers, people from different sectors
hold different powers and it seems difficult to balance and cooperate with
other people from different sectors for the healthy development of children. I
give an example here, if you want to deliver a baby in a hospital but your
Residence Permit is not local, you have to travel to your Residence place for
collecting some permissions no matter how far the hometown is. It’s the same for
a child whose residence permit is local when entering the primary school. I
hope everyone in China will pay attention to the problems and do something for
it.
NAEYC. (2005, April). Code of ethical conduct and statement of commitment. Retrieved May 26, 2010, from
http://www.naeyc.org/files/naeyc/file/positions/PSETH05.pdf
http://www.naeyc.org/files/naeyc/file/positions/PSETH05.pdf
Hi Xia li,
ReplyDeleteFrom the ideals you have chosen, it shows your passion and commitment to the children, families and the community.
Xia,
ReplyDeleteI really like reading your posts to your blog. It is so interesting to me what is important in your country. I enjoy seeing all that you are learning and all that you are able to apply to your personal life and culture. I hope that you continue to be encouraged and help out in your community!
Krista