I would like to mention poverty specially here when I read these factors with my own experience.
I was born in a small town with more than 1000 people living there. Before 10 years old, I spent almost my whole time there. All the families in town were very poor at that time. We lived a self-sufficient life there. The parents plant wheat and grow rice in the filed, and also other kinds of food, like sweet potato, pumpkin, and many kinds of vegetables. Because every family cherishes a lot of the food, sometimes when the corns are mature, people would steal from each other’s field. When the time to watering the filed was coming, the adults would stay in the field whole nights to watering their own fields. Usually, I will have one or two new clothes for the spring festival but not any other time during the year. The clothes were very plain, my mother will buy a beautiful cloth, took me to the only tailor in the village, measured my size, and the tailor would make a clothes for me. It was very delighted to have the new clothes.
When I was young, I ate whatever we planted in the field, those were all organic, but the types were not so abundant. When I grew up, I found out I only knew few kinds of vegetables, and have no idea of how to eat for a balance. The “eating habits, not genes, were the cause” take a long-term effect on me. And “eating a wide variety of foods may be essential for optimal health”. (Berger, 2012) And I always feel deficient, worried about what I have are less other others. So, I push myself to work hard, and don’t dare to relax.
Talking about poverty, sometimes when I watch international news, I know there are some countries in Africa very poor. The children live there are really in a miserable condition, they don’t have clean water, no enough food, they can not afford the education, so the poverty pass through generations. How can we help those poor children and their families is a global issue now.
Reference:
Berger, K. S. (2012). The developing person through childhood (6th ed.). New York, NY: Worth Publishers.
Xia Li
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your personal story. I believe that as we get older and our lives improve financially and spiritually, we should never forget from where we came from. Our life as children may have positive and negative effects on us as adults but we learn to appreciate life that much more.
Shelita
Hi Xia Li,
ReplyDeleteSharing your personal story is triumph! I respect your lifestyle and culture but I can see how this way of life may not have benefited you fully as an adult. I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, growing up with many things, large variety of food however I lacked major parental support. So i can understand, on a emotional developmental stance how it is to grow up and realize my true struggle. I admire that you have overcome alot in your life and you still stand tall. That shows your courage and determination for life!
Hello Xia! I'm always so eager to hear of your experience with being from another country. It's amazing how here in America, farmers have to watch out for animals stealing their growing goods, but in your country, you guys actually had to look out for other people, as the food would become scarce! I admire your hard work and dedication that you present now, to keep from going backwards and struggling like you did during your childhood! It was definitely a learning lesson to try your best to do and be better! I truly admire you Xia! Nice job!
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