Wednesday, November 4, 2015

My Family Culture


If I have to leave China and could never come back, and I can take three items from China to be with me, though it’s very hard to choose, but I will choose a pair of shoe-pad made by my mother, a DVD of Kun Opera, and a cheongsam.
A pair of shoe pad made by my mother means a lot. It let me feel I am connected with my family, the warmth accompanies me, and remind of myself where my spirit is. Choosing A DVD of Kun Opera, first because I love music and opera, second, it shows the history of China, how my ancestor thought and expressed themselves, it made me know my own history and I can introduce to the people in the new country our opera culture and Chinese history. And let me know how much I am proud of being a Chinese.
Cheongsam is what I love to dress. Cheongsam is a sign of being Chinese woman, it is as beautiful as peony, and remind of being tender but strong-hearted.
If I was told I could only keep one, I will feel my wholeness is torn into parts, I will lose some identities of mine.
This exercise is so meaning to me. I have not thought about my country culture and my connection to my own culture so deeply before. I love my country, but never have to idea why I love and which part I love. And I never thought about the deep influence the culture I am from taken to me. Through these two weeks exploring about my social identity, I feel all the pieces happened to me connected into whole. The journey in this course is so wonderful.

1 comment:

  1. Xia,
    Wow I see that you have a deep connection to your culture! How awesome that you would take those pairs of shoes with you, they are small enough for you to carry. I didn't know that the pretty dresses were called cheongsam, I have learned something new today! You know I was in the same boat as you I didn't think too much of my family culture and which items I really hold dear until this assignment. Could you imagine leaving your precious country! That could be scary!

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